..........AND WE"RE BACK....... :)~

Daaauuuummmm! I can't believe I haven't blogged in almost 2 months....For some reason I just couldn't bring myself to sit for a couple of hours and write......and it wasn't writer's block either.....Cause sooooo much has gone on in the past few months to blah, blah, BLOG about......

I think it was a matter of not wanting to waste hours sitting at the computer...Instead I spent them being out of this apartment..... Outdoors..... with friends or family....Or sometimes just myself down at the beach or at the park...... I have found myself Seeing... and Being..... and Acting upon things differently since I have known about my surgery. You know... the whole mortality thang!... Especially since I have a date for it to happen.....

I've found myself not caring about allot of stupid shite anymore!

Like yesterday..... I hosted a GRLZ brunch out on the patio..... My close buds....The "regulars" were there....
But I had invited 2 cousins and 3 of my friends that I have known for a few years now .....and have been to their places plenty of times.....but have never been invited to ours........
WHY???.......
Location ...location....location.....

Kat and I are city grlz.......We live on a street of color, ethnic diversity, and....... the occasional crime scene.....For the most part this street is pretty quiet for being a major road with a high school 1 block away.......but for a few hrs. a day, while the gang bangers ...errrr I mean kids that are getting out of school are on the street..... I even plan my outings around them...lol........

Anyway back to the point.......you know ......
NOT giving a SHITE about the stupid .... :)~
To quote Stan from South Park...I think I've learned something here today.....

A few months ago I probably wouldn't have invited those people over .....
But instead........ I chose to share a little bit more of myself, my home, and my food with people that I care about!... :)~
Hope everyone had a good time!......and those of you who couldn't make it were truly missed....
PEACE OUTIE......TMC